6 tips for spicier sex your baby and your daddy
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Babe, do you want to try something new and make a deeper connection with your baby/ daddy? Then sex toys are your answer.
If you’ve never used one before, sex toys can be intimidating. But with the 6 tips that I have for you, it will become a piece of cake. Be prepared; it’s one of the sexiest things you can do for your partner, as it shows you’ve taken the time to make the experience positive for you both.
Step #1: Choose your sex toy
Choosing a sex toy can be a thrilling experience. It can be a fun, playful, and arousing activity. You can bring your partner into this process. Go out on a date to browse the options at your local sex store, or curl up on the couch and shop online together.
When buying your toy, here are some questions to consider:
Who's this toy for;
When will it be used;
Is it compatible with your lubes?
Once you’ve chosen the toy you want and you’ve checked that it’s safe to use with your lube, you’re ready for step number two.
Step #2: Don’t rush
Now you’re excited. You’ve got your new toy and you can’t wait to try it out.
After tearing open the packaging, wait a minute. Take some time to explore the toy itself. Learn how to operate it before bringing it into the bedroom. Play with the sensations over your clothes and then on your skin.
Also, always remember to charge your toys or change the batteries before a play session. There’s no mood killer worst then a toy dying while you’re climbing to climax.
Step #3: Start exploring
It’s time to start exploring mutual pleasure. Many toys have variable speeds and rhythms that can stimulate areas other than the genitals. As great as these toys are at bringing us to orgasms, they work just as well for building arousal.
Take turns exploring the vibrations and speeds on different areas on your bodies. Encourage vocal feedback; tell each other where it feels good or where it feels a little sensitive.
Exploring these new sensations will build sexual tension and create trust with the toy.
Step #4: Share your solo play
By now, you should be ready to use the toy on your genitals.
Show your partner how you use the toy on yourself and then encourage your partner to use the toy on themselves. Taking turns is a great way to make sure you don’t overuse the toy on your partner. After each of you has had your time in the spotlight, you’ll both surely be very turned on.
Step #5: Experiment
Now that you are both comfortable with the sex toy, you can continue to stimulate different parts of your bodies as you have sex. Play with the variety of sensations and press the toy in between your two bodies.
Be vocal about where and how you like the toy as you continue to use the toy. Get creative and stay curious with your sexuality.
Step #6: More Toys
After it’s over, take some time to reflect. What did you like about the sex toy and why? Were there certain sensations you wanted more of, less of? If you know what you like, it will be easier to consider adding another toy in the future.
There are thousands of toys out there: toys that tease, pulse, stimulate, and massage all the best spots. There are even toys that both of you can use at the same time.
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By now, you’ve successfully introduced a sex toy into your sex life. Congratulations! When you apply these tips, your experience with your new toy will be all the more enjoyable. Remember, communication is key and practice makes perfect and there is so much pleasure in play.
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